Find yourself some solid friends and a partner (if you want one) that help to amplify all the ways you wish to grow, and who validate, love, and support who you are at your CORE (even the out-of-left-field parts of you that the world has tried to tell you is weird and to keep to yourself – trust me those are the things that *your people* will love about you the most).
If you do this, no matter what circumstances occur in your life, you’ll never falter all the way to the ground. They’ll have your back before you can do that (If you let them, that is. If you don’t be certain you will meet the ground.). And you’ll have their backs too. And when you share each other’s successes you won’t believe how good it feels to celebrate knowing this.
That’s one of the simplest laws of life. This is one of the best lessons I’ve learned during this past decade of ups and downs in my life.